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Tuesday, March 6, 2012
Help To Get Your Ex Back Before It Is Too Late.
When this happens, the first thing I ask them is what they have already tried.
Once they tell me I understand why they have failed up to that point.
Knowing what not to do is equally important as knowing what to do.
I am going to give you the exact same advice I give to my girlfriends when they ask me for help, and if you can follow this advice you will be in a much better position to win his heart back.
Do not chase him.
He left you and this means he needs some space to think and maybe even reconsider his decision.
Men are very different from us and when they feel cornered they will push you away even harder.
Commit to a no contact time frame and stick with it.
During this period do not call, text, email or visit him. If you do you are risking losing him forever.
Do take this time to think about whom you really are and what you really want.
Focus on yourself right now. Use this time to rebuild your self-esteem; maybe get a makeover or start working out.
Try to get back to the woman who he fell in love with. When he does see you again you want him to see that woman, not a sobbing mess.
When my friends would say "how to get my ex back!" this is one of the first things I pointed out as I looked into their sad and puffy eyes!
Do not play the blame game.
When you do have contact with him again, do not start in with the things he did to you or point out all of his flaws.
This shows immaturity and the fact that you are not ready to talk to him again.
Even if he cheated on you, do not throw that in his face. If you want him back that means you are willing to forgive any past mistakes.
If you are not willing to do so, you need to stop right there and give him up for good.
No man wants to live each day in the shadow of his mistakes, and if you cannot let them go the relationship is doomed before it even begins again.
Do reflect on exactly what the relationship problems were.
Chances are that you have some of the blame on your shoulders as well. Figure out what part you played in the relationship ruin.
Is it something you can change? If so, figure out how to change it.
When you do talk to him again, you can share these things with him.
Once he sees that you are genuinely trying to help repair the relationship and not just trick him into coming back, he will be more open to revisiting the topic of being together.
I know that you have read a lot of other "help me get my ex back" information, but I can promise you that anything that tells you to bow to scheming and dishonesty will not work.
It will drive him away for good and you will have to live with the fact that the mistakes you made are what caused it.
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